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Amber and Richard Spackman, Childhood Friend

Aaron and Lorraine,
 
Since I found out about Aaron and learned about what he is going through right now, I have been thinking about Aaron and Lorraine, praying and hoping for a miracle for their family. I just wanted to look back and share the funny side of Aaron. Things that I keep thinking about when we were young. Aaron was a childhood friend of mine (and my brother Jarrod), who has always been a good example to me of righteousness and stalwart living. He was true to the faith, chose to Serve the Lord, but we sure had some funny things happen to us when we were around Aaron. 
He wanted to make us laugh and he wanted to laugh at our expense as well. He accomplished this by causing a scene in public. Frequently when we were in a public place with Aaron, he made it a point to fall in a crowded restaraunt or run into a pole as we walked out of a 7/11 or just make a fool of himself. We laughed a lot with Aaron and enjoyed his jovial side.
 
Life was fun Around Aaron.
 
I know life isn't fun right now, but I hope there can be times to smile during this trial. We are praying for you Aaron and Lorraine. We love you, we respect and look up to you. Bless you and your family at this time.
 
Much Love-
 
Amber and Richard Spackman and family.

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  1. Amber,
    How sweet, kind, thoughtful and like you it is that you wrote his fun post. You helped him grow to his full stature by all the meals you fed those boys. Never was a nicer big sister.
    We love you,
    Kathy

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