Skip to main content

Merthan Beck, Friend

First and foremost, I cant even begin to express the profound feelings running around right now, and the things I wish I could say but find myself stumbling to find the inadequate words.... but want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
It has been so many years since I have seen or talked with Aaron, and certainly have wished I how he was doing, and regrettably over the years many of the memories have faded, although there are still a few which come to mind.I thought perhaps I could tell a story from when we were boys in Rob Lee's 'Blazer' class. I could have reminisced over a scouting adventure or even hike which resulted in a campout sleeping under the stars with porcupines walking over the sleeping bags, or the yearly Christmas Caroling stops at the Thatchers home, dinners, or so many other times simply associating with the family... but I think the one I want to share is one night when I stayed over at the Thatchers.
I have no idea what we ate for dinner that night, maybe we watched a movie or an episode of the A-team, I cant really remember, nor do I remember which games we played as we stayed up half the night trying to keep the noise down so his parents didn't realize we were still up (little knowing at the time that parents ALWAYS know when their children are staying up well past bedtime)... but I do remember when we were playing and Aaron decided to show just how accurate he could throw a baseball.
I cant remember the exact layout of the upstairs but I remember that Aaron and Jeff had a room at the end of a long hallway. We stood just outside his room, and I watched as Aaron walked down the hallway and set up a pillow resting on the wall, and then waled back to where I was standing. I remember watching and listening as he explained how he would stand, how he would proceed to throw the ball and just where his fingers needed to be to turn the throw into an accurate fast ball.
So there I stood, amazed at what was sure to be a fantastic picture of my friend, throwing the ball and watching it stop harmlessly in the pillow.
Well as I am sure you can all imagine, that's not quite how it ended up. It was almost slow motion as I watched Aaron go through the perfect and fluid motion of winding his arm, picking his target, and letting lose the fastest ball I had to that point ever witnessed. Time seemed to slow down even further as I watched the ball completely miss the pillow and punch a big hole in the sheet rock.
Those were good days Aaron, and will always thank you for allowing me to share some of them with you.
Miracles happen every day, both big and small and my prayers are truly with you that a miracle is in your future. All my thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

Comments

  1. We have great memories with the Beck family and with you Merthan. Do you remember the 'Star Wars' marathon? Thanks for writing. We believe in miracles too. Friends are miracles in our lives.
    Kathy Thatcher

    ReplyDelete
  2. I do remember the marathon, although I believe I fell asleep during empire strikes back

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The Battle Begins

As Aaron's family, we think he is the greatest and we know there are many others who feel the same way.  He is a friend to all and sees the best in everyone.  Our Big A is truly one of a kind. Aaron has always been a healthy guy and has never smoked a day in his life.  When he became sick in January, we never dreamed it was anything serious.  Multiple doctors told him it was Bronchitis.  By March, he and Sweet Lorraine knew it was something more serious.  X-rays were alarming and the biopsy showed Adinocarcinoma Lung Cancer. He will soon begin treatment.  He and Lorraine, along with Kaitlin, Maddie, David, Brigham, Ella and Lily are asking for your faith and prayers.

Aaron Vere Thatcher

Written by Aaron's Mom and siblings: To all who have loved Aaron throughout his life, we want to let you know that he passed away yesterday, December 18, 2018 in the hospital, surrounded by his family. Sunday night, Aaron took a turn for the worse and was taken to the hospital. We were hopeful that he could regain his strength and come home, but it wasn't to be. Yesterday he interacted lovingly with friends, church leaders, siblings, his Sweet Lorraine, and his children. In true Aaron fashion, and with great effort, he spoke to each person, looking in their eyes, calling them by name or nickname, expressing his love and gratitude in a personal manner to each one.  We wish that all of you who love him could have been there with us yesterday to witness his finest hour. He was the Aaron Thatcher we all love to the last moment, and there was an incredible outpouring from his wonderful soul. Each  felt personally loved and remembered by him. In his suffering, he tutored us ...

MVP (Most Valuable Patient)

We met with the oncologist yesterday and went over Aaron's PET scan. The prognosis came as no surprise to us. Aaron's symptoms have only intensified over the last two weeks and we knew there could be only one reason why; the cancer was spreading. He has stage 4 papilary lung cancer. It has spread to his hips, part of his spine, rib cage, and some small lymph nodes. Each place Aaron pointed to, on his body where he felt pain, the dr. would look at that area on the scan and we would see a green dot indicating cancer. We are waiting for more results to tell us if this cancer has any genetic markers. There is a 10% chance he has one of them and a 3-4% chance he has the other. If he has one of these markers it means the treatment is more successful. In the meantime, we proceed as if Aaron has neither of these markers present and we begin chemotherapy. He starts on Thursday. Once a week every three weeks for I don't know how long. He also has an appointment with a great lun...